Take a journey with me through my sexcapades!

Archive for July, 2012

The Art of Seduction PT 1

Some people may read this and think that I’m an easy lay or a hoe that can’t keep her legs closed. I don’t expect everyone to enjoy or accept the openness of my sexuality, but at the end of the day, it’s not about what people think about me or my sex life. It’s about fulfilling my needs and exploring my beautiful sexuality. Sex has a different meaning to me. It’s a form of artistic expression. The beauty of sex is completely fascinating to me; connecting with someone on a physical level and coming together for a common goal is something truly beautiful in my eyes. I know what I want sexually and I refuse to settle for anything less. I tend to laugh to myself after one of my crazy Sexcapades. The scenarios I tend to get in are truly laughable the day after but, during it’s an amazing experience. Sometimes there’s even that one experience that’s good enough to go down in the books. Someone once asked me how they could seduce me. I didn’t even have to think before the answer left my mouth “A perfect combination of mental stimulation and flirtation.” To me…that’s Seduction.

As women, we are naturally emotional creatures always looking and yearning to be loved by another person. Whether you’re looking for love or not, it’s in our DNA to want to feel wanted. The biggest mistake women make is letting these emotions affect your choices when it comes to men. We often focus too much on what could be or what may happen with him, filling our own heads with fairy tale scenarios and feeding into the sweet nothings that are being said to us in the heat of the moment. And when you think with your heart and not with your head, the power is his. It’s that moment of lust; letting unrealistic thoughts take over your mind completely while searching for love in that immediate infatuation. All the while, you’re losing yourself completely and submitting your heart to his words. You’re trying to force the physical attraction to be something more than what it was originally meant to be and ending up in situations that leave us emotionally scarred and damaged. That’s where we lose — when we drown ourselves in a sea of emotions and fictitious romance from desperately wanting him to save us.

I enjoy the natural push and pull of attraction. The flirtatious playful banter that slowly builds anticipation and sexual attraction between two people. The simple touch the sends electric currents through your body, bringing you closer together with every touch. The deep, silent gazes that can rock you to your core and give you butterflies while letting your bodies talk because all your mouth can do it laugh. In the playfulness of discovering and exploring someone new, we all yearn for that deep connection with another person; the natural-click anticipation between two auras that invigorates the mind, body, and soul. The simple sigh of relief while sharing intimate parts of your life and someone gets it. Gets you. However, this doesn’t always happen and sometimes it’s better if no words are said at all. But when it does happen, your soul feels at peace and your heart smiles within. These mental mind fucks are the key to great sex.

I feel like every woman should be able to feel the power of seduction. Not only is it an amazing feeling, but being able to seduce a man while maintaining control of your emotions is something worth conquering. As women, the need for mental stimulation is essential in order for you to truly enjoy sex. It’s when you’re able to build your own sexual fantasy in your head and lure him into it while being able to read his body language and careful advances. You’re carefully analyzing the intimate words that are being shared, observing his response, and testing the depths of your conversation, making subtle advances in response to his. Lead him through your sexual fantasy, into your world. Naturally go with the flow of the sexual attraction between you, keeping in mind that this is just a moment and nothing lasts forever. You have to be at peace with the fact that this, this very moment, may only happen once and that it may not be more then just lust. Slowly become more comfortable in your own skin and let go of all inhibitions. Set your mind, body, and soul free and bless him with that gift. The gift of seeing you in all your glory.

11 Different Types of Orgasms

Now as a lot of you may know there’s not a lot of things that surprise me when it comes to sex. I consider myself a try-sexual, I try everything once. So while watching Sex and the City (one of my all time favorite shows) I was inspired to look up the female orgasm and I was blown away by what I discovered. I was assuming that there was maybe 4 different types of orgasms but I was sadly mistaken. There are 11 different types of orgasms that a woman can have. You read it right 11! Now why hasn’t this information been shared with the public? Why don’t women know this information? I’m a very sexual woman and I was completely clueless to this information and I personally want to make this information public. So here it is the key to an amazing sex life!


1. The Clitoral Orgasm:

This orgasm is  the most common and is the result of clitoral stimulation. Intensely pleasurable feelings start within the clitoris and send waves of pleasure throughout the body.The clitoris is the most sensitive area on the female body, being one of the most nerve rich. If you are a guy, imagine ALL the nerve endings in the penis poured into one small area about the size of a pea.The clitoris is so important to receiving pleasure that sexual arousal is always felt there on some level. That is why the clitoris is so responsive to certain kinds of touch.

However, it’s not the same for every woman; it’s sensitivity varies greatly from woman to woman. Some women may prefer a light touch while others may require much stronger and firmer stimulation. For some women, it’s so sensitive that touching the clitoral glans directly is often uncomfortable and unbearable. After an orgasm, the clit may become extremely sensitive to the point of being painful. As a good lover, you should know that, and give your woman a few minutes of rest.

This kind of female orgasm can be given:

Orally. My advice to those women who complain that their partners have no idea of how to give it, show them, communication is key for a woman to achieve orgasm. Tell your partner what feels good and what doesn’t feel good. Help your partner be attentive to your sexual needs.

Fingers: I highly suggest that women masturbate, simply to figure out what you like and what you don’t like. Again, communicate to your partner let them know  if they are doing it wrong or if its hurting you. Always keep the clitoris lubricated, it enhances pleasure and helps achieve the orgasm faster. 

How does this orgasm feel to a woman ?

A clitoral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as “less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and good clitoral stimulation adds a lot to your sex life and helps her “warm up”  and prepare for penetration. 

2. The Vaginal Orgasm:

This kind of female orgasm begins in the vagina and either stays focused in the pelvic and lower stomach areas, or spreads from there. The uterus, pelvic muscles, and even anus may begin to contract during this orgasm. Those contractions are quite strong and may actually push out anything that was stimulating the vagina. This kind of orgasm takes longer to achieve (it takes a woman on average 20-25 mins to achieve this kind of orgasm)  Rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get her there, a good lover will communicate with his woman and find out the best position for her to reach it.

How does this kind of orgasm feel to a woman ?

Many women describe it as “less intense” than a clitoral orgasm, but more deeply felt. They feel it as a pressure that slowly grows and explodes deep inside the vagina. This  varies greatly from woman to woman.


3. The G-Spot Orgasm

This orgasm begins in the G-Spot(which is located 2-3 inches in the vagina) and may stay there while climaxing or it may powerfully explode through the whole body (I like to call this the leg shaker). This spot feels different in texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture than the rest of the vagina, which is normally how it is found. During sexual arousal, the tissue surrounding the urethra becomes engorged with blood and the Para-urethral / Skenes glands produce and fill with prostatic fluid. In fact, this process is very similar to male arousal. As a result, the urethral sponge becomes “erect,” and if you touch it, it feels firm. In other words, this is a kind of female hard-on.

How to reach it:

There are different ways of stimulating the G-Spot. Rhythmic pushing or circular friction movements are the best for achieving this kind of orgasm. One position that is good for reaching this sexual peak is from the back or fingering.

This orgasm may also lead to female ejaculation (see the next section on squirting).

How does this kind of female orgasm feel to a woman ?

This kind of female orgasm takes some time to build( again 20-25 minutes) Many women describe it as a very special, deeply sensual pleasure, which builds until their whole lower stomach and pelvic area explodes. Often, they are carried away for quite some time by the powerful wave of euphoric energy and don’t even realize where they are and what is going on around them (I like to call this one the leg shaker).

4. Squirting Orgasm (Female Ejaculation)

This kind of female orgasm is so profound that it deserves a book of its own. It’s mysterious and not a lot of women achieve this in their lifetime. Female ejaculation is generally achieved by stimulating the G-spot, which is considered an erotic zone located internally, at the front of the vagina. This area is intimately connected with the urethra. Indeed, pressure on the G-spot area will invariably produce a desire to pee. A woman has to be EXTREMELY comfortable with her partner or with herself in order for this to be achieved.  This kind of female orgasm builds a very deep bond between a woman and her partner. This is the most intimate and delightful thing your woman can share with you.

 In short, this powerful orgasm is achieved by using ancient Tantric techniques. It releases negative emotions and fills a woman with light, euphoric energy and a feeling of fulfillment and peace. Squirting makes other kinds of female orgasms look pale in comparison.

Note for single women: if you don’t have a partner or just want to experience this kind of orgasm on your own, here is the good news … it is perfectly possible !

5. The A–Spot Orgasm (The Anterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulation of an area deep in the vagina (about 4-5inches) on the front wall. It is the same wall where the G-Spot is situated. In other words, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner front end of the vaginal tube, between the cervix and the bladder.After an orgasm, the A-Spot does not become too sensitive, and you can easily continue stimulation, bringing your partner to new heights of pleasure, this is why women are able to achieve multiple orgasms. 

Many women find the feeling incredibly pleasurable, while some may not like it at all. Keep this in mind when experimenting.

How is this orgasm given:

Basic missionary position, where a man is short-thrusting very deeply during intercourse.

With a hand. Use the same technique you use for stimulating the G-Spot, but in this case, go as deep as your fingers can reach. Simply said, you just try to “scoop it out” with your middle finger.

Many women describe this orgasm as a kind of soft electricity bringing them to a sharp, erotic climax. A few women find this orgasm very similar to the G-spot, while some find it closer to an extremely strong vaginal orgasm.

6. The Deep Spot Orgasm (The Posterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the area located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the vagina, just before the cervix.Direct stimulation of the Deep Spot can cause very intense orgasms. Some women may feel as if they are having anal sex. This particular area is not widely known, so very few women have ever experienced those sensations.

This kind of female orgasm can be given with a hand, using “Come Hither” motions. Use both long and short strokes, and you can even use two fingers if you like.

Note: first find out what kind of feeling your partner has when you touch her cervix. Some women enjoy it a lot, and some do not like it at all.

7. The U-Spot Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm comes from the stimulation of a small area of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. If this region is gently caressed with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there is a powerful erotic response.you stimulate this area the same way you treat the clitoris.

Almost every woman can achieve the orgasms above but there are more. These are less common and a woman’s sexuality is key to achieve these.

8. The Breast Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm occurs during a peak of stimulation to the breasts. The nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris when their nipples are stimulated. Many women feel increased sexual excitement when their nipples are stimulated but not all of them can experience the breast orgasm. This depends very much on how sensitive their nipples are.

9. The Oral Orgasm

This orgasm can be experienced by women who are very sensitive orally. The mouth plays a big role in the sexual nervous system. The mouth orgasm can take place during any sensual oral activity such as kissing, licking, sucking, or performing oral sex. Many women describe the excitement as beginning in their lips and then spreading from the mouth to the genitals and all over the body.

YES you can achieve orgasm while giving head. Every mans dream 

10. The Skin Orgasm

This orgasm can be brought about by massaging certain areas of female body that are not directly connected to the sexual nervous system. Examples include orgasms experienced by many women during sensual massages. 

11. The Mental Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm can happen during visual and auditory stimulation. Examples of such stimulation are movies, videos, or sexual behavior exhibited in front of others. Women become so turned on that they can actually experience an orgasm from the excitement alone. 

Do this: Lay down and turn on a porn or keep the room quiet. Close your eyes and focus on the sounds envision what you think is happening and pretend it is happening to you. Imagine the scenario that you want, let your mind completely take over. Flex your kegal muscles. This takes time and full concentration.


So there you have it, 11 different types of orgasms a woman can have. I hope you all take this information and use it to have the best sex!! Enjoy

Late night special

OMG OMG OMG!!! How to eat pussy 2 by @Freddy_E is too hot for YouTube. I’m not one to get turned out but uuuuhhhh this video made me feel some kind of way, the way that boy rolls his tongue made my my legs shake!
FELLAS : Take notes
LADIES : Send this to your dude or make him watch it an take notes!!!
Spice up that sex life 😉 How To Eat Pussy PT 2

Get the week started off right!

Introducing #moodsettermondays
This is something I wanted to incorporate into my blog for awhile now. I’m going to talk about little ways to spice up your sex life or helpful ways get you some! Topics will range from playlists to the art of seduction.

So this week I’m featuring a sex mix. Hope y’all enjoy!
DJ @VegatheVirgo Super sexy mix #moodsettermondays