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We had been seeing each other for quite sometime and he finally opened up to me about his fantasies. he told me that he wanted to take me with him to a swingers party. He wanted me to be the first woman he brought into his sanctuary. So naturally i said yes and was really excited to go with him. a few days went by and I got a text stating that he wanted to take me to the next party a couple days out. I could tell he was nervous 1) because i was the first girl he had ever taken with him to an event and 2) because my sexual energy was intense and i know that he wanted to show me off. I made my way to the neighborhood sex store and did what any good hoe in a situation like this would do. I bought a collar. It was a hot red silver studded leather collar with dangling chains. I couldnt wait to show my daddy what i had in store for him. Later that night he knocked on my door. I greeted him dressed in black from head to toe no color accept the red collar. I happily gave him the leash and told him i belonged to him for the night. He smiled with sheer pleasure and i could tell that i put his mind at ease. I myself was acting out my most sacred fantasy, belonging to one man, a role i never played in personal or work life. I was just as nervous as heck to go into this supreme sexual sanctuary. The drive there was almost impossible to bear. I was nervous as heck but i tried not to let it be known to him. I was his prized possession and his queen i had to hold my head up high. i was ready to perform and put on a show. As we walked up the lighted path towards the sanctuary I could feel the intense sexual energy surging from him. He was I couldnt wait to tour the home that we walked into. I was already wet with desire and i could tell he was getting excited just by me getting excited. when you walked into the mansion

I was his prized possession and his queen, I had to hold my head up high. I was ready top perform and put on a show. As we walked up the dimly lit path towards the sanctuary I was getting more and more nervous for the events about to take place. I could feel myself get wet with pure excitement. I could feel the sexual energy surging as soon as we walked through the doors.

 

Your fantasy

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“Your Fantasy”
I searched for what seemed like eternity, on a path to reach your soul, I almost lost my sanity, even though I promised you I wouldn’t lose my self-control.
At first I thought it was my imagination, I tried to pretend you weren’t real, you’re the most amazing man, and each word you speak creates a separate, hot sensation, how can I ignore what you make me feel?
It must be impossible to cease, wanting to be in your arms, all through the night, my love can never decrease, so why do you put up this fight?
Don’t even try to resist, when my hand creeps up your thigh, we haven’t even kissed, yet you’re hard, and I think I know why.
I move your hands to my breasts, and I take your cock out and give it a squeeze. Let me put your body to the test, I get on my knees, and beg you, “Please?”
I take your dick in my lips, and suck it slow, then fast, you’ll love it when I roll my hips, I guarantee I’ll let you play awhile, and promise to make you last.
I get you real hard, then you kiss me so quick, after you cover yourself with a latex guard, I lay on my back, and you take me to paradise with your dick.
You sink inside me, with every single thrust, you bring me closer to coming, but then you bust.
You come inside of my body, or so I thought, yet you’ve got a look in your eyes that only can be naughty, and you’re still pulsing, thick, and hot.
So we change position, with me mounting your bare, awesome erection, what put our bodies in this needy, horny condition? I don’t really care, because you feel good without protection.
So I ride you, rolling my hips back and forth, up and down, all across and around, you like what I do, so you rub and caress my swollen mound, I lean down and fuck you faster, you suck my nipples and hold my ass, I tell you I’m your only master; you agree, and say that as your woman, I pass.
You stand up and take me to the wall, then pound me fast and hard, we finish on the floor of the main hall, the cool tiles chilling us down, and our orgasms remind me of that fusion magic card.

Heaven

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I’m breathing heavy
Watching my chest rise up and down slowly
Softly moaning
My legs shake uncontrollably
I push — you pull

My back arches
Pressing your tongue inside me
I get butterflies while I close my eyes
Letting you consume me
I push — you pull

My whole body is burning
I’m about to burst
Hot then cold my whole body trembles
I come down slowly
I push — you pull

…I go to heaven again

The Art of Seduction PT 1

Some people may read this and think that I’m an easy lay or a hoe that can’t keep her legs closed. I don’t expect everyone to enjoy or accept the openness of my sexuality, but at the end of the day, it’s not about what people think about me or my sex life. It’s about fulfilling my needs and exploring my beautiful sexuality. Sex has a different meaning to me. It’s a form of artistic expression. The beauty of sex is completely fascinating to me; connecting with someone on a physical level and coming together for a common goal is something truly beautiful in my eyes. I know what I want sexually and I refuse to settle for anything less. I tend to laugh to myself after one of my crazy Sexcapades. The scenarios I tend to get in are truly laughable the day after but, during it’s an amazing experience. Sometimes there’s even that one experience that’s good enough to go down in the books. Someone once asked me how they could seduce me. I didn’t even have to think before the answer left my mouth “A perfect combination of mental stimulation and flirtation.” To me…that’s Seduction.

As women, we are naturally emotional creatures always looking and yearning to be loved by another person. Whether you’re looking for love or not, it’s in our DNA to want to feel wanted. The biggest mistake women make is letting these emotions affect your choices when it comes to men. We often focus too much on what could be or what may happen with him, filling our own heads with fairy tale scenarios and feeding into the sweet nothings that are being said to us in the heat of the moment. And when you think with your heart and not with your head, the power is his. It’s that moment of lust; letting unrealistic thoughts take over your mind completely while searching for love in that immediate infatuation. All the while, you’re losing yourself completely and submitting your heart to his words. You’re trying to force the physical attraction to be something more than what it was originally meant to be and ending up in situations that leave us emotionally scarred and damaged. That’s where we lose — when we drown ourselves in a sea of emotions and fictitious romance from desperately wanting him to save us.

I enjoy the natural push and pull of attraction. The flirtatious playful banter that slowly builds anticipation and sexual attraction between two people. The simple touch the sends electric currents through your body, bringing you closer together with every touch. The deep, silent gazes that can rock you to your core and give you butterflies while letting your bodies talk because all your mouth can do it laugh. In the playfulness of discovering and exploring someone new, we all yearn for that deep connection with another person; the natural-click anticipation between two auras that invigorates the mind, body, and soul. The simple sigh of relief while sharing intimate parts of your life and someone gets it. Gets you. However, this doesn’t always happen and sometimes it’s better if no words are said at all. But when it does happen, your soul feels at peace and your heart smiles within. These mental mind fucks are the key to great sex.

I feel like every woman should be able to feel the power of seduction. Not only is it an amazing feeling, but being able to seduce a man while maintaining control of your emotions is something worth conquering. As women, the need for mental stimulation is essential in order for you to truly enjoy sex. It’s when you’re able to build your own sexual fantasy in your head and lure him into it while being able to read his body language and careful advances. You’re carefully analyzing the intimate words that are being shared, observing his response, and testing the depths of your conversation, making subtle advances in response to his. Lead him through your sexual fantasy, into your world. Naturally go with the flow of the sexual attraction between you, keeping in mind that this is just a moment and nothing lasts forever. You have to be at peace with the fact that this, this very moment, may only happen once and that it may not be more then just lust. Slowly become more comfortable in your own skin and let go of all inhibitions. Set your mind, body, and soul free and bless him with that gift. The gift of seeing you in all your glory.

11 Different Types of Orgasms

Now as a lot of you may know there’s not a lot of things that surprise me when it comes to sex. I consider myself a try-sexual, I try everything once. So while watching Sex and the City (one of my all time favorite shows) I was inspired to look up the female orgasm and I was blown away by what I discovered. I was assuming that there was maybe 4 different types of orgasms but I was sadly mistaken. There are 11 different types of orgasms that a woman can have. You read it right 11! Now why hasn’t this information been shared with the public? Why don’t women know this information? I’m a very sexual woman and I was completely clueless to this information and I personally want to make this information public. So here it is the key to an amazing sex life!

 

1. The Clitoral Orgasm:

This orgasm is  the most common and is the result of clitoral stimulation. Intensely pleasurable feelings start within the clitoris and send waves of pleasure throughout the body.The clitoris is the most sensitive area on the female body, being one of the most nerve rich. If you are a guy, imagine ALL the nerve endings in the penis poured into one small area about the size of a pea.The clitoris is so important to receiving pleasure that sexual arousal is always felt there on some level. That is why the clitoris is so responsive to certain kinds of touch.

However, it’s not the same for every woman; it’s sensitivity varies greatly from woman to woman. Some women may prefer a light touch while others may require much stronger and firmer stimulation. For some women, it’s so sensitive that touching the clitoral glans directly is often uncomfortable and unbearable. After an orgasm, the clit may become extremely sensitive to the point of being painful. As a good lover, you should know that, and give your woman a few minutes of rest.

This kind of female orgasm can be given:

Orally. My advice to those women who complain that their partners have no idea of how to give it, show them, communication is key for a woman to achieve orgasm. Tell your partner what feels good and what doesn’t feel good. Help your partner be attentive to your sexual needs.

Fingers: I highly suggest that women masturbate, simply to figure out what you like and what you don’t like. Again, communicate to your partner let them know  if they are doing it wrong or if its hurting you. Always keep the clitoris lubricated, it enhances pleasure and helps achieve the orgasm faster. 

How does this orgasm feel to a woman ?

A clitoral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as “less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and good clitoral stimulation adds a lot to your sex life and helps her “warm up”  and prepare for penetration. 

2. The Vaginal Orgasm:

This kind of female orgasm begins in the vagina and either stays focused in the pelvic and lower stomach areas, or spreads from there. The uterus, pelvic muscles, and even anus may begin to contract during this orgasm. Those contractions are quite strong and may actually push out anything that was stimulating the vagina. This kind of orgasm takes longer to achieve (it takes a woman on average 20-25 mins to achieve this kind of orgasm)  Rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get her there, a good lover will communicate with his woman and find out the best position for her to reach it.

How does this kind of orgasm feel to a woman ?

Many women describe it as “less intense” than a clitoral orgasm, but more deeply felt. They feel it as a pressure that slowly grows and explodes deep inside the vagina. This  varies greatly from woman to woman.

 

3. The G-Spot Orgasm

This orgasm begins in the G-Spot(which is located 2-3 inches in the vagina) and may stay there while climaxing or it may powerfully explode through the whole body (I like to call this the leg shaker). This spot feels different in texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture than the rest of the vagina, which is normally how it is found. During sexual arousal, the tissue surrounding the urethra becomes engorged with blood and the Para-urethral / Skenes glands produce and fill with prostatic fluid. In fact, this process is very similar to male arousal. As a result, the urethral sponge becomes “erect,” and if you touch it, it feels firm. In other words, this is a kind of female hard-on.

How to reach it:

There are different ways of stimulating the G-Spot. Rhythmic pushing or circular friction movements are the best for achieving this kind of orgasm. One position that is good for reaching this sexual peak is from the back or fingering.

This orgasm may also lead to female ejaculation (see the next section on squirting).

How does this kind of female orgasm feel to a woman ?

This kind of female orgasm takes some time to build( again 20-25 minutes) Many women describe it as a very special, deeply sensual pleasure, which builds until their whole lower stomach and pelvic area explodes. Often, they are carried away for quite some time by the powerful wave of euphoric energy and don’t even realize where they are and what is going on around them (I like to call this one the leg shaker).

4. Squirting Orgasm (Female Ejaculation)

This kind of female orgasm is so profound that it deserves a book of its own. It’s mysterious and not a lot of women achieve this in their lifetime. Female ejaculation is generally achieved by stimulating the G-spot, which is considered an erotic zone located internally, at the front of the vagina. This area is intimately connected with the urethra. Indeed, pressure on the G-spot area will invariably produce a desire to pee. A woman has to be EXTREMELY comfortable with her partner or with herself in order for this to be achieved.  This kind of female orgasm builds a very deep bond between a woman and her partner. This is the most intimate and delightful thing your woman can share with you.

 In short, this powerful orgasm is achieved by using ancient Tantric techniques. It releases negative emotions and fills a woman with light, euphoric energy and a feeling of fulfillment and peace. Squirting makes other kinds of female orgasms look pale in comparison.

Note for single women: if you don’t have a partner or just want to experience this kind of orgasm on your own, here is the good news … it is perfectly possible !

5. The A–Spot Orgasm (The Anterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulation of an area deep in the vagina (about 4-5inches) on the front wall. It is the same wall where the G-Spot is situated. In other words, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner front end of the vaginal tube, between the cervix and the bladder.After an orgasm, the A-Spot does not become too sensitive, and you can easily continue stimulation, bringing your partner to new heights of pleasure, this is why women are able to achieve multiple orgasms. 

Many women find the feeling incredibly pleasurable, while some may not like it at all. Keep this in mind when experimenting.

How is this orgasm given:

Basic missionary position, where a man is short-thrusting very deeply during intercourse.

With a hand. Use the same technique you use for stimulating the G-Spot, but in this case, go as deep as your fingers can reach. Simply said, you just try to “scoop it out” with your middle finger.

Many women describe this orgasm as a kind of soft electricity bringing them to a sharp, erotic climax. A few women find this orgasm very similar to the G-spot, while some find it closer to an extremely strong vaginal orgasm.

6. The Deep Spot Orgasm (The Posterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the area located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the vagina, just before the cervix.Direct stimulation of the Deep Spot can cause very intense orgasms. Some women may feel as if they are having anal sex. This particular area is not widely known, so very few women have ever experienced those sensations.

This kind of female orgasm can be given with a hand, using “Come Hither” motions. Use both long and short strokes, and you can even use two fingers if you like.

Note: first find out what kind of feeling your partner has when you touch her cervix. Some women enjoy it a lot, and some do not like it at all.

7. The U-Spot Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm comes from the stimulation of a small area of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. If this region is gently caressed with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there is a powerful erotic response.you stimulate this area the same way you treat the clitoris.

Almost every woman can achieve the orgasms above but there are more. These are less common and a woman’s sexuality is key to achieve these.

8. The Breast Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm occurs during a peak of stimulation to the breasts. The nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris when their nipples are stimulated. Many women feel increased sexual excitement when their nipples are stimulated but not all of them can experience the breast orgasm. This depends very much on how sensitive their nipples are.

9. The Oral Orgasm

This orgasm can be experienced by women who are very sensitive orally. The mouth plays a big role in the sexual nervous system. The mouth orgasm can take place during any sensual oral activity such as kissing, licking, sucking, or performing oral sex. Many women describe the excitement as beginning in their lips and then spreading from the mouth to the genitals and all over the body.

YES you can achieve orgasm while giving head. Every mans dream 

10. The Skin Orgasm

This orgasm can be brought about by massaging certain areas of female body that are not directly connected to the sexual nervous system. Examples include orgasms experienced by many women during sensual massages. 

11. The Mental Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm can happen during visual and auditory stimulation. Examples of such stimulation are movies, videos, or sexual behavior exhibited in front of others. Women become so turned on that they can actually experience an orgasm from the excitement alone. 

Do this: Lay down and turn on a porn or keep the room quiet. Close your eyes and focus on the sounds envision what you think is happening and pretend it is happening to you. Imagine the scenario that you want, let your mind completely take over. Flex your kegal muscles. This takes time and full concentration.

 

So there you have it, 11 different types of orgasms a woman can have. I hope you all take this information and use it to have the best sex!! Enjoy

3 hot sex positions GUARUNTEED pleasure

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This type of Cunnilingus is difficult to imagine at first glance but if you use a bed or similar stuff it’s rather obvious. Ladies sit on the edge of the bed and lay back bend your knees and lean back until you reach the position. Have your man lay on the bed so he can reach your vagina and makes what is obvious from the cunnilingus name. This position requires your man to be strong enough to hold you up while you support yourself with your arms on the bed. The view and the extreme form of the woman torso makes this position very very interesting and if you tried it once never forget the view!!!

(top right) Have your man sit down on a bed (or wherever your at) then sit into his lap facing your man. Then lean backward and place your hands on the bed while placing your feet on the bed as well. Ladies you have a lot of freedom to move and this is the most important advantage of this position. In this position do not allow for any vigorous thrusting it’s a convenient way to build up a more sensual contact and reach multiple orgasms.

(bottom) Another way for you fellas to give your woman cunnilingus! This position is pretty easy, it’s a guaranteed orgasm and one of my favorites!!

Alter Ego

Alter Ego

Sean and I had been dating for a little over a year and we were already hitting a dry spot in our relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I love him and everything, but I had sexual needs that weren’t being met. I mean the shit was seriously getting boring for me and we hardly did the nasty anymore. Everything was great in the beginning; shit, we could hardly keep our hands off each other. Every chance we got, Sean’s dick was inside me. The sex was so good, that after about five months, we moved in together. That’s when everything started going wrong. He seriously started tripping and was getting way too comfortable. His boys took priority over pleasing my pussy. That shit was about to stop. Something drastic needed to change or I was out of this relationship for good.
Me and my girl Keisha were both having some sex issues in our relationships and decided to go to the adult store together. I was completely unsatisfied with all the vibrators and dildos. I wanted the real thing. Then it hit me – I would get a sexy little outfit and dress up for my man and surprise him! I got the most hoochie mama dress I could find; it was short and backless with a swoop neck front. I got 5” heels and a short Halle Berry like wig. I thought the wig looked banging on me because I had shoulder length hair and it made me look like a totally different person. Excited to get my freak on, I rushed home only to be disappointed by a note:

“Baby, went out with the boys to ‘Fever Lounge’. See you when I get home around 2am.
love you,
Sean.”

Completely infuriated, I sat down and contemplated packing my bags; but I couldn’t do it. I loved him and I just needed to rekindle the flame! Then I thought if the dick wasn’t where I wanted it, why not go get the dick? I got my outfit on and looked myself in the mirror. I had to do a double take I looked so different. I looked at my ass for at least five minutes because it looked even better thanks to the heels. I knew Sean was in for a surprise as I switched my hips and left for the lounge. I was ready to fuck.
I rolled up to the club in my Suburban on a mission. I wanted his dick and I was going to get it. As soon as I walked into the club I immediately caught the eye of almost every man in the lounge; all except my hubby. At least I knew he wasn’t cheating on me. I sent a drink over to him and he glanced at me, smiled, and went back to kicking it with his boys. I grabbed my drink and slinked over towards his table slowly switching my hips, making it impossible for him not to watch. I leaned on the table and flirtatiously touched his arm; I got wet just by the feel of his muscular bicep.
“Hello, my name is Carmella. I’m your girlfriend’s alter ego and I have been neglected for too dayum long. You either need to start paying some attention to me or Corrine and I are going to be out that door.” I pointed to the exit of the lounge. He looked up surprised that it was actually me standing in front of him. “Daayyumm baby you look hot,” he smiled because he knew it was on. I leaned all the way over and whispered, “Prove it.”
I started to strut away towards the bar. As soon as I got there I could feel his hands around my waist and his dick on my ass. He started kissing my neck and I turned towards him so he could grab my ass. I was so wet I wanted fuck right there on the bar.
“Baby lets go home,” He said.
“No, I want you now.” I grabbed his arm and led him into the bathroom.
I was getting ready to fuck. We locked the bathroom door behind us so that we could have a little bit of privacy. I turned towards him and pushed him up against the wall, we started kissing passionately; he couldn’t keep his hands off me. I sat on the sink and wrapped my legs around his waist; I could feel him protruding through his pants. I moaned from wanting him inside me so bad. I couldn’t wait, but he had other plans. He fingered me while I played with my clit. He wanted me to cum so he stuck a second finger in and started playing with my pussy rigorously. My juices were all over the counter; I started moaning like crazy. I could feel my face getting hot and my legs started shaking uncontrollably as I came all over his fingers. I took his fingers and placed them in my mouth and sucked my cum off to show him what he was in for. I smirked as I hopped off the counter and I pushed him up against the sink, unbuttoning his pants. I wanted to taste him. I pulled down his slacks, whipped out his dick, and giggled with excitement. I licked around the head, teasing with my mouth, and took him all the way in. Never before had I deep-throated his shit, but tonight I did. I could feel his dick pulsating in my mouth while I sucked as hard as I could. All he could muster was a, “Baby YES!” as he came in my mouth and down my throat. He tasted SO good, I wanted more. I kept sucking on his glorious dick, making him hard again. He leaned against the counter motioning for me to bend over. I happily got up, pulled up my dress, and slid his dick inside me. He started thrusting his hips towards mine; I could feel him go so deep inside me. A moan escaped my lips as my pussy continued to wrap tighter around his dick, flexing and pulsating with every thrust. He grabbed my hips, holding me still while he fucked me as hard as he could. Corrine tried to pull away, but it hurt too good for Carmella to allow it.
“FUCK ME DADDY!” I yelled. I felt his dick going in and out of me; each thrust took him deeper and deeper inside of me, pounding my walls. I wanted more. Right on cue, he turned me over, picked me up, and placed me on the counter. He held both my legs and entered me as I wrapped my arms around his neck for support. He slowly slid in and out of me while doing circles inside me.
“FUCK!! Babe, don’t stop!” My legs were trembling. I was going to cum again. He could feel me pulsating so he started thrusting harder, hitting the back of my walls. I let out a scream as we came at the same time. I clung to his neck as I lost complete control of my body; we were both shaking.
I giggled. He kissed me on my lips while we both got ourselves together. I fixed my wig and reapplied my lipstick. Before we left, I put my finger on his lips “Shhhh, it’s our little secret. Don’t tell anyone.”
When we opened the door, all his boys were standing outside trying to figure out what happened. I smiled and blew a kiss to them while I seductively switched my hips and walked past them. I smiled to myself; I knew Sean was going to get props for bagging a complete stranger and to this day, his friends still think just that.
But maybe he did.
After all, Carmella is my alter ego.